Pause between posts explained.

All you faithful readers sorry for the long delay. So here's the deal. There are really two reasons for the lapse in frequent posts. First, it seems the longer Akins has been home the more challenging he becomes. Hopefully, this is not a reflection of our parenting style or skills. I can assure you it is the opposite of what I would have expected. If one had asked me what to expect I would have said big problems up front then upon settling and feeling safe fewer in frequency and magnitude. On the contrary, it seems he has more issues with time and so this requires more attention and patience from us. The second reason is we went on the first trip since just after he came home with a quick 5 days to California to finally meet Lorea's family. I have lots to share from Knott's Berry Farm and the beach, etc. that I hope to post maybe tonight (depending on how bedtime goes) or at least this weekend. Thanks for you patience and hang in there I promise more to come.